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IF YOU CAN'T LET IT GO, WORK IT THROUGH.

Mark Pelter left life as a Buddhist monk after 12 years, realizing he couldn’t let go of his reactive cycles of anger and fear. While continuing his own inner work, he began teaching and counseling others, and discovered the ancient Buddhist mind training practice known as lojong.

 

Combining the 59 slogans of lojong with meditation and journaling prompts, Pelter built a daily practice that helped his students move beyond the common platitude to “just let it go” and truly begin to work through their emotional obstacles. This guide to profound lovingkindness, both for ourselves and others, became If You Can’t Let It Go, Work It Through.


If You Can’t Let It Go, Work It Through isn’t just a Buddhist primer or another daily meditation journal, but a gentle investigation into our deeply conditioned patterns and how we might be liberated from them. In our volatile and uncertain world, Pelter offers readers a way to live with more spaciousness, generosity, and compassion.

Motivational quote to persist through challenges by Mark Pelter.
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This book is for you if:

  • You keep replaying difficult conversations or experiences
  • You find yourself reacting in ways you later regret
  • You struggle with anger, fear, stress, or resentment
  • You want to understand your emotional patterns more clearly
  • You are interested in meditation but want something practical
  • You are curious about Buddhist teachings but want something accessible
  • You’re looking for a structured way to reflect, journal, and work through what keeps coming up

What to Expect:

  • An introduction to Mark’s own journey from a Buddhist monastery to present day
  • The 59 traditional lojong mind-training slogans, with Mark’s commentary
  • Meditation practices that support greater awareness
  • Journaling prompts for deeper reflection

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to recognize recurring emotional patterns before they take over
  • Ways to work with anger, fear, stress, and reactivity
  • Approaches for cultivating compassion toward yourself and others
  • Practical ways to bring these teachings into everyday situations

About Mark

Mark Pelter has been a spiritual guide and counselor for 35 years, providing support for those seeking to understand and resolve their reactive patterns and emotional conditioning. Mark holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Consciousness Studies, a Master of Divinity Degree, and has been a Board-Certified Chaplain for 26 years. He lives in Sacramento, California, and is a husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather.

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